Its like a path and every path has its bumps and smoothness along.

 

Let's start with "what are your hobbies?" I wouldn't recommend this as a question for me. How about tell me about yourself?

We all go for security. Lets not lie, whether physical, emotional or financial. It's assumed that ladies of "nowadays" go for financial security and that's okay remember everyone has their definition of financial security ie(Joint account)you both contribute.

"Is she/he the one?" You're probably wondering or you've  been in such situation. I would say if you like her or him that's probably the one. Does some of the characters that you wanted there? That will pave the start of the path.

"He cheated on me!!" Well; lady you gotta leave that relationship because it's a sign that he's not serious. If he's sorry for everything, then that's up to. But remember just like a cracked mirror, the cracks will be there.For the gent, you gotta prove to her that you're really sorry and show her that you love her and if it doesn't work, you have to respect that. And vicesersa. But I do believe just like a broken bone, it can be rebuild.

Remember if it doesn't work, Don't put blame on genders. "Ati men are dogs" "ladies are only after money" etc

Honesty is also a pathway that both genders should practice. If she's into small skirst atleast she told you so hehe. "Am a player." Atleast he's honest and it's up to you to decide. 

Ladies don't give in(sexual desires) and vice versa. At this point both of you are discovering each other. There's still unmasking that needs to be unmasked. 

Finally, Be ready to invest on other. Success will be for the two you.

Your thoughts? 

And I'll leave this question: How long should dating take?

And if there's a recent ex situation, how long should it take for one to step into another relationship? I believe these should be a topic on its own coz I feel there's a lot to be discussed.

Your comments and share I'll appreciate ❤️

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