I Believe the goal for most is being successful, and if not, others is maintaining their success. What Success is varies with individual.

Who would have thought we once debated “Education is better than  Money” ????

Allow me to focus on Five things;

                   Financial

We’ve all had our shortcomings. If not, the rest is to maintain it, which also requires the gear to be moved. The aim is to keep going and be someone, making your child self happy. Loans, unemployment, unhealthy working environment, crimes, (Bad money habits) can make one dwell on the valleys, making it seem impossible. It may not be easy, but remember coming out of it is the end goal. Do something!!!

                   Emotional 

Encounters may be different, but one thing for sure is we shouldn’t compare them. For instance, Gender based violence, losing a loved one, failing exams, failed marriages, sickness, toxic work environments. Being there for One another is key. We may not relate much until it’s you in that situation!! As an individual, you’d have to rise up from the “WOISHE WOISHE” to I GOT THIS!!

                    Physical 

That would include us getting enough sleep at night????, which may seem impossible in this time and era. But when you get to sleep, give yourself break from internet and your phone. Truth be told, in the world we living in, bad people exist. Body shaming is there and will always be. First is accepting you for who you’re. The rest can follow. Besides no one should make you change , that should be a personal initiative.

Staying active should be a practice, and this will help one be mindful and increase focus to be what one wants

                       Mental 

“Being Mentally exhausted” One can be irritable, tired and finding it hard to focus. It has to self acknowledged that one ain’t okay and finding help is another step. 

                     Spiritual 

Being Spiritual, will improve on strength both morally and spiritually, in a way that relates to deep feelings and beliefs, especially religious beliefs 

Funny thing is, just like the body, they all have to become one with different functions for the success of  one being SOMEONE. Work on it, and be Someone you want. 

Your Inputs and Thoughts will be highly appreciated.